Yael Edelist I’ve heard so many stories from our customers about navigating medical crises with loved ones. I always wondered: How would I handle it if it were me? Now I know, even just a little.
A month ago, life handed me a lesson. My partner received a diagnosis that led to surgery just two weeks later. It was a whirlwind filled with uncertainty, fear and a lot of learning.
I learned that being there for someone isn’t about how I would want to be cared for but about learning what they need. We all respond differently to fear, pain and the vulnerability of illness. My role was to listen deeply, to tune into how my partner wanted to be supported.
Luckily, his surgery went smoothly and we are moving forward with relief and gratitude but the experience left me reflecting: Do you know how to listen to the needs of someone you love when they are facing a challenge? A partner, a parent, a friend?
Happy Monday,
Yael Edelist President, Alembika USA
Yael, I understand just what you are going through as 3 years ago my husband Larry was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. Needless to say this brought on major life changes for both of us, and continues to affect our lives in big & small ways every day as we navigate the new now. I have found that living in the present, day by day, is the best way for me to deal with the stress, anxiety and sadness of this disease. And to keep a healthy, balanced and positive outlook for the future. Larry is doing OK. We are active, involved as we can be and try to see our glass as half full, not half empty. Our 55th anniversary is next week! I am glad your partner is well and that you have gotten through a difficult time with understanding and grace. xo Mady Fechner